There are signs that a man transmits when he has finally found some mental clarity in his life and is ready to make a leap into marriage.
1. YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT
Ask yourself: “Where do I see myself in five years?” If your answer includes your partner, it is a good sign. You must be sure of what you want. If you want your boyfriend to be your husband all your life, then get married. But if you doubt him, if you believe that the love he feels for you is not true or that it is not worth it, that he could be unfaithful or that he has many defects or make mistakes that you would not endure later, stop. It is not ready for marriage.
2. DO YOU WANT TO FORMALIZE
Well, it might be that you want to get married, but he is not the right person. But if you feel that your single life is no longer what it was before, you no longer find meaning in the lives of other single women: going from boyfriend to boyfriend, flirting with boys that you don’t know what’s up and looking for something more than lifetime; If so, go ahead, you are ready to commit.
3. YOU FEEL EMOTIONALLY MATURE
No one prepares you for how difficult marriage can be. You can see it at the party, the wedding and live together, but it carries a lot of responsibilities. Are you ready to be a wife? Are you ready to be a mother? When you get married you will go through moments of emotional crisis, family and if you are not emotionally prepared you will run away or you will not know what to do. Make sure you feel ready.
4. YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE A LIFE BY YOUR SIDE
If you have been with your partner for a while and you feel that he is really someone very special, you can not stand the idea of separating when you travel, you would prefer to go on vacation together, meet new places together and you have reached the point where you can not imagine what your life would be without your partner and you see yourself getting older together, yes, you are ready for marriage.
5. YOU HAVE REACHED SOME FINANCIAL STABILITY
If there is a problem that makes many marriages fight, it is money. It is not advisable to start a married life when you have debts or on the basis of loans since debts cause other stress to be generated that can be created in a marriage that begins and is in the coupling stage. Your solvency must be adequate to at least meet the basic needs of a home.
6. YOU MAKE LONG-TERM PLANS TOGETHER
If in your decisions to buy an apartment, a car, change jobs or a future goal you see yourself consulting with your partner, you are on the right track.
7. YOU LOVE EVEN THE SMALLEST THINGS IT DOES.
It may be that in past relationships you have not endured certain habits of your former partners as they saw football, but with it, it is different because it is not that you are blindfolded: you know that it has defects and annoying habits, but you do not care. You see it as a perfect set of imperfections and you see everything well. This is a very clear sign that you are not blinded, but that you appreciate his character and have learned to see beyond.
8. DO YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF PART OF YOUR FAMILY
You have already met his family and your partner yours. You have been to different celebrations, birthdays, events, anniversaries, good and bad times and every time there is a more beautiful integration with you and with them. They have accepted you as part of the family and your family has accepted your partner in the same way.
9. YOU SEE YOURSELF FORMING A FAMILY TOGETHER
Not only have you imagined what their children would be like, but you realize that your partner has many details that you would like your children to have and, above all, that you imagine your partner raising them and educating them. There is no one more perfect to start a family than him.
10. YOU FEEL DEEP DOWN THAT YOUR PARTNER IS THE ONE
Although all the signals are important, there is no more decisive signal than this. Know deep down that your partner is the one, that you cannot live without her and that without a doubt she is the person with whom you would like to share the rest of your life, for good and for bad, because in her something that does not compare not even with the man of your dreams, because he is real.